A stark new survey has laid bare the isolating reality of life in the UK's capital, revealing that nearly half of Londoners find it a logistical nightmare to make social plans with friends. The research, conducted by the free social events app WeMeet, highlights a profound 'connection gap' in one of the world's most bustling cities.
The Lonely Reality of City Life
The data paints a picture of urban life that is busy yet profoundly lonely for many. Forty-eight per cent of respondents stated that the most challenging part of socialising is simply finding a date that works for everyone. A further 35% cited being in 'different stages of life' from their friends as a major barrier, while 16% blamed physical distance.
Despite the constant hum of city activity, only 23% of people feel 'pretty good' about their local social circle and the events available to them. The emotional toll is significant, with 20% admitting they feel lonely when their friends aren't around, and a troubling 13% saying they always feel lonely—so much so that they sometimes try to escape the city because of it.
After-Work Exodus and the Struggle to Connect
The survey, published on 18th December 2025 and updated on 19th December 2025, delves into daily routines, uncovering a mass retreat from communal life after hours. Almost 45% of people said all they want to do after work is go straight home. In contrast, a mere 3% regularly attend organised after-work events, and only 11% go for casual after-work drinks.
When it comes to forging new connections, the challenges intensify. Forty-four per cent of people say it is genuinely hard to meet others in London. Furthermore, 43% struggle to find the right people to connect with in real life (IRL), with many describing the process of meeting people online as 'kind of cringe'.
A Strong Desire for Connection and New Solutions
Yet, the appetite for human connection remains powerful. An overwhelming 93% of those surveyed expressed a desire to meet new people in their city. This clear demand is prompting fresh approaches to bridging the social divide.
The WeMeet app, founded by group travel company WeRoad, is one initiative aiming to provide a solution. It offers a variety of low-pressure, activity-based events—from pottery classes, which are the top choice for 48% of its users, to yoga, group meals, and hiking meetups. The platform allows users to discover events, RSVP, and follow hosts, facilitating real-world meetings based on shared interests without relying on endless messaging or dating app swipes.
Erika De Santi, Co-Founder and Chief of Experience at WeRoad, explained the mission: “This is our way of helping people form real friendships in their everyday lives, not just on holiday.” The findings underscore a critical need for such innovative approaches to tackle urban loneliness and help Londoners build meaningful, offline communities.
