A 30-year-old straight woman from North London, identified as Elodie, has revealed her summer sex bucket list after a chance encounter with a mysterious 'daddy dom' at a singles event. The bucket list includes threesomes, sex parties, and exploring butt plugs, as she aims to make her single summer more exciting.
Monday: A rocky start to the week
Elodie's week begins with tension from a weekend argument with a man she has been dating for less than a month. A miscommunication about their lack of communication escalated into a row, leaving her frustrated. After sending an unanswered voice note, she assumes the relationship is over. 'I’m not really upset, I just feel let down once again by the men on the dating scene,' she says. Acting on a whim, she buys a ticket to a singles event hosted by a friend later in the week, hoping to meet new people outside of dating apps like Hinge. She ends her day with yoga and an impromptu pub trip.
Tuesday: Embracing 'sexy single summer'
After a morning blood test, Elodie spends much of the day complaining about dating to friends, including a male friend who encourages her to enjoy being single during a 5k run. Scrolling Instagram, she discovers the 'sexy single summer' movement, which inspires her to commit to a single summer 2026. That evening, she switches from Hinge to Pure, an anonymous sexting app, where she connects with James, who shares her interest in a threesome with two men. They exchange nudes and use a Smile Makers Tennis Pro G-spot vibrator, discussing the logistics of a threesome. 'I’d like to be watched, but also love the idea of both men all over me at the same time,' she says.
Wednesday: Planning a threesome
James and Elodie continue their conversation, and the hypothetical threesome begins to seem like a reality. Elodie suggests involving her ex, Toby, with whom she had a brief relationship eight years ago and has hooked up on and off since. 'He’s still one of the best sexual experiences I’ve ever had, always set on maximising my pleasure,' she says. Toby immediately agrees to the threesome. Elodie notes that both men have made her feel comfortable, easing her previous concerns about 'two alpha males grunting like lions in the wild.'
Thursday: Meeting the 'daddy dom' mentor
At the singles event, a dinner party with booze and a chef, Elodie overhears a man talking about threesomes and approaches him. The mysterious 'daddy dom' has an infectious energy and shares stories of women pursuing threesomes with him. He offers to become her 'spiritual guide' for the summer, suggesting she save his number as 'mentor.' Together, they create a summer sex bucket list including a sex party, different types of threesomes, and voyeurism, along with rules and boundaries. Elodie's rules focus on her being in control, avoiding mundanity and work chat, and a vetting process that includes effective communication and no-expectations drinks before any encounter.
Friday: Revamping dating profiles
After debriefing with her housemate, Elodie revamps her Feeld profile, encouraged by her mentor to attend a sex party. She connects with Gabriel, who lives 15 minutes away and shares her interest in butt-play. Despite the potential for sexting, she opts for an early night to avoid getting carried away.
Saturday: Logistics and uncertainty
While visiting family, Elodie receives a message from James asking if the threesome is still on. She confirms and sends selfies, but when she shares a picture of Toby and reveals their history, James goes silent, making her worry he is put off. Meanwhile, she discusses logistics with Toby, who is happy to host the threesome at his place.
Sunday: Sexting and a butt plug
Gabriel and Elodie engage in a serious sexting session on her train back to London. She mentions her desire to try a butt plug, and Gabriel orders one for her. Later, they continue sexting, with Elodie using her favourite purple vibrator. She considers inviting him over for a quickie but sticks to her boundaries, instead organising a drink for the following week. 'He makes me orgasm through the power of his messages instead,' she says.
